THE FAMILY AS AN INSTITUTION

The Family as an Institution

The Family as an Institution

When you grow up in a dysfunctional family, you have the trauma and pain of parents' actions, words and opinions. Because you have experienced trauma, when you grew up which has changed, is different from other children, the absence of a significant part of the necessary parenting that will prepare you for adult life, the missing part of your childhood when you were forced to an unnatural role in your family. For some of you, it took you to avoid the pain of your past by moving to alcohol or drugs. Others feel inexplicably compelled to repeat the abuse. Others have felt an inner anxiety and anger, and do not know why you feel like you do now. Raleigh-parent families (Herman, 1981).

Dysfunctional families, in which the relationship between parents and children were strained and against nature. This is usually when a family member has serious problems affecting other family members, and each family member finds it necessary to adapt the atypical roles in the family, the family as a whole to survive.

The wife of this family may allow a spouse to maintain employment problem lay with him, for example. He or she can become an obsession for her husband's unusual behavior problems that he or she loses perspective in their own lives, the picture, which is called interdependence. Sharon Wegscheider mentions the role of this family in alcoholic families. Signature role of the clown and hyperactivity. Mascot, often with the youngest child, usually in the center of attention in the family, often entertaining the family and do everything better through humor and zaniness. Mascot, in turn, can be Overprotected and protected from the problems of life. Inside the Mascot experience intense anxiety and fear, and can persist ...