PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

Personal Development

Personal Development

An age-old question, which most people have considered at any juncture in their lives, is "why are we the way we are"? Unfortunately, I can't hint you in on the answer to that question in a really authoritative way, but I can tell you about the work I have been doing to determine how my Personality Type got developed.

I am using a realistic story that will tell you much about my own sufferings. In my life there was much pain that was quite noiseless; and that made my agonies, a mere whisper in the hurrying existence. Yet, I kept secret my sufferings that of low moans in the night, seen in no writing except that made on the face by the slow months of suppressed agony and early morning tears.

It was sad how my expectations have gone down with every year of high school, but I guess that is just what the real test of character is all about. I was about to leave high school not having a clue on what I want to do with my life. But now that I know that one has to face the responsibilities for every decision one makes, I might be ready to make some smart ones.

As I had only a single parent, my mother always wanted peace with her children and between them. When we don't have peace, we feel like failures. We can discard the notion that conflict is indication of our failure or defeat as parents. Rather, conflict in our lives can be a reminder of God's love for us, and the commitment to transform us. The stresses and strains of parenthood painfully draw us toward repentance and change. My mom's primary goal was the transformation of my heart. She installed in my personality the notion of critical thinking (Parker, 2007).

Critical thinking was created in me when I was able to endorse, value, and realize my individual personality. Once, I realized the significance of critical thinking I felt cushy and assured to utilize my various perspectives and appeal to work, and included it at all level. My sense of critical thinking welcomed the uniqueness of my look out for high standards of fulfillment (Nucci, 2007). And assuredly I dispensed with all these endeavors fully.

In practice my mother applied the critical thinking aspect because of the following reason. Her thinking values demonstrate a style of managing and organizing which is less hierarchical. The less hierarchical style is expressed as comfort in relations, small differences between her and not so strict and formal organizational plans (Kuczinski, 2007).

This style of bringing me up always made me move with elegance and sureness, and in fact I moved along briskly. Even in difficult and puzzling situations, I was always resolute and focussed. It has elements of a traditional mystery story, but in the end it's a study of personality, reality and so on.

My mother's style of bringing me up was more of the kind of Humanistic ...