How Communication Has Changed Between Couples since the Development of Social Medical Services

How Communication Has Changed Between Couples since the Development of Social Medical

Introduction

Married couples communicate in a myriad of ways throughout the world. Different countries have cultural norms that people conform to, and these norms directly influence how individuals in intimate relationships communicate. These norms also affect other behaviors and attitudes that significantly affect relationships. Chinese and American cultures are quite different, and therefore, it is assumed that couples from China might have different communication styles and beliefs about their relationships than American couples (Liu, Et.al, 2006). Some of the most challenging times in life are when we are not getting along with our partner. When our intimate relationship is charged with anger and hurt we can feel devastated and scared that we may lose our connection to the person we love. You and your partner may be afraid that your relationship cannot survive the disagreements and miscommunications. Your relationship may feel like an emotional rollercoaster ride, one moment the two of you feel close to each other and in the next moment you feel offended and exasperated. Both of you may feel there is no way out of the fighting and tension.

We can also feel vulnerable out in the world when our connection to our partner feels rocky. It can be hard to concentrate at work and be engaged with family and friends because we feel emotionally drained. We can hide that there is friction with our partner and find ourselves alone in our frustrations and hurts. In order to maintain a good partner is necessary for communication between both parties is fluid, have confidence in each other and can talk about anything without inhibitions. Communication is a round trip circuit. Everything you say produces at the same time on the other an answer that generally have nothing to do with the topic of the moment, because this is contaminated by past experiences or memories, and this causes a chain reaction to these events and completely removed from the moment (Wood, 2007).

When problems arise it is important to stop and have a conversation open and honest about them. Deny them and pretend that nothing happens, will accumulate and exploit these in the least expected moment. You can learn to say things on good terms, without violence or abuse, or let the problems go beyond the two partners. One of the biggest problems in an argument is to persist in being right, when in reality, looking from the side of each, both have it and must be able to come into harmony, for this, the best communication tool is the negotiation .

It is important to know that what comes in couple communication is the tone of voice and gestures, and least important is the content of the message, so it is very good and important to learn to communicate (Stutzman, 2006).

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