There is no fixed pattern or parenting style that parents should adopt to encourage and enable better attachment and understanding which their children. There is always a blend of democratic, permissive, authoritarian approach that works depending upon the situation a child is. A sole approach will rather result in negative consequences rather than positive (Felson, 1989).
For good parenting style parents must:
Treat their child with respect. Talk and ask questions. Be polite. Avoid nagging, yelling and hitting. If your child misbehaves in public, take it home. Avoid humiliating. Maybe she is tired or hungry. Next time, plan the trip after you slept or eaten. Oh, and never forget to use good manners: "Please." "Thanks." "Excuse me", "Good morning, good night", etc.
Be consistent. Do not be permissive at a time and narrow in another. Make sure everyone follows the rules, even you. Make promises only when you are sure you can keep. Maintain a united front. As parents, please refer to each other so that the child does not try to make them fight to achieve their purposes.
Encourage their child. Help build confidence in itself. Say, "I know I can do" or, "You worked really hard on that." Avoid criticism and very importantly, do not compare one child to another.
Express your love. Say the words "I love you." Give pats, hugs and kisses.
Make time for fun. Do things you both enjoy. Avoid (not 100%) and television video games. If you like playing a sport, teach and discover new ones. It is very motivating for the children that all family members encourage him with clubs and congratulated him when the ball evens a strip club or pine.
Question No. 3
Freud's Theory
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