LOVE AND SEX

The Theme of Love and Sex in Tom Inglis' Making love

The Theme of Love and Sex in Tom Inglis' Making love

Introduction

Think love and sex, these two things go together like a book and the text, such as music and scores, such as the newspaper and news so many determined (Oso Casas, 2010; Borusiak, 2012). But why does then with time the desire for sex in the relationship? Why young lovers have sex several times a day, and in old age only a little or not at all? At the beginning of a relationship of sex has an important meaning. The sex is equated with the longing for closeness to the partner and the affection for him / her. Later takes over this role. We notice that we do not really need sex to show his love for the partner (Corley & Hook, 2012; Lenon, 2011). The proximity of both, the intimacy, warmth and security in the relationship are now equated with sex at least, if not even higher. There are of course other reasons why the sex in an advanced relationship no longer holds an overarching role: the onset of routine, boredom, physical disability, listlessness and other factors are decisive (Kijak, 2011; Utley, 2010).

Discussion & Analyses

Man and woman are physically, emotionally and spiritually different, yet they are called by God to complete. Becoming one flesh unites all aspects of life (Perlesz, Power, Rhonda, McNair, Schofìeld, Pitts & Bickerdike, 2010; Dana Ménard & Cabrera, 2011; Inglis, 2012). In the broader perspective of the union, intercourse includes the exchange of thoughts and feelings. Sexual intercourse is the highest form of communicating our love for each other and fundamental expression of intimacy (Ogletree, 2010; Oso Casas, 2010). It is the language of love without words. In fact, there are no words to express what we feel. Faith in God is the bond of the covenant marriage, sexual intimacy is the seal of the Holy Spirit.

The quality of the celebration of sexual intimacy depends on the quality of the marital relationship as a whole (Borusiak, 2012; Corley & Hook, 2012; Inglis, 2012). There is little satisfaction in the body if there is little physical intimacy in marriage as a whole. Because God has given to man and woman were finished and have put on the desire for each other, no problem is purely sexual. Difficulties in physical intimacy are often symptoms of problems in other areas of the relationship. The woman's attitude about herself, her husband and in relation to the sexual act will determine her reaction in physical intimacy (Lenon, 2011; Kijak, 2011). If expectations are not met or if negative emotions such as jealousy, bitterness or rejection are present, then the physical intimacy will suffer.

Intimacy refers to feelings experienced within a relationship that promote the bond between the couple, distinguishing the presence of ten elements: the desire to promote the welfare of the loved one, the feeling of happiness with it, the respect for her, the ability to have a loved ...