How do Mrs. Dutta from “Mrs. Dutta Writes a Letter” and Emily from“A Rose for Emily” compromised by resisting change?

The story Mrs. Dutta writes a letter and A Rose for Emily by the authors Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni's and William Faulkner address the two themes present a similar situation where characters Mrs. Dutta and Emily are confronted with a number of situations common in many ways.

A difficulty coping/learn to adjust with the demanding situations of the consequences. Mrs. Dutta a conservative Indian woman in the true spirit views/herself as a not needed person sad about the fact but keeps reconciling eversince ...