Gay parenting: An unconventional Wisdom of the World

Introduction

For a long time, homosexuality was considered a “taboo” subject for various reasons. It was thought to violate societal norms, it went against religious doctrines, and individuals simply were not comfortable with the thought of two people of the same sex engaging in relations. In modern-day reference, the term gay is associated with homosexuality. However, the term has encountered ambiguous meaning throughout time. A brief discussion of the historical usage of the word gay shows how the term has come to be misappropriated often within modern contexts. Because of this, homosexual individuals and communities struggle to maintain a strong identity within the midst of continual shifting connotations of the term gay within the vernacular.

The word gay originates from the Old French word gai. It can be expressed as an adjective, noun, or adverb. The term is primarily used as an adjective, but in efforts to identify an individual's sexual orientation, the use of the term as a noun is relative.

As an adjective, gay can be used to describe things that are pertinent to gay people, or simply the gay culture. For example, a gay club itself is not a homosexual club. Using gay as an adjective simply refers to the sexual orientation of people the club provides services to. Early on, for educational or literal references, the word gay referred to “happiness” or “flamboyance.” In the late 1800s, the word referred to the sexual behavior of men or women who engaged in sexual activity frequently with multiple partners; also known as promiscuity. It was not until the early 1900s that it was used in reference to homosexuality.

Homosexuals referenced the term as code among themselves to avoid the stigma of being considered clinically ill by the general public. The term gay has also encountered a negative connotation among the younger generation. Statements such as “That is so gay” or “You are so gay” are indicative of someone or something being not being good or “cool.” As aforementioned, the word gay is associated with the term homosexuality. Yet, generally speaking, it refers to same-sex relationships and marriage, hence, gay marriage.

However, supporters of the homosexuality community have steered away from coining that phase because it is more inclusive of just gay men and not lesbians, bisexuals, and transgendered individuals.

In the late 17th century, the term gay began acquiring sexual connotations with meanings associated to pleasure. This proved to be an extension of the primary meaning, “happiness” and/or “flamboyant.” In the following centuries, the term gay-life was conceived as an indirect reference to prostitution and other forms of sexual behavior that was deemed immoral. The use of the word gay in association with the term homosexual was simply derivative of the sexual connotation the word had to come inherit. Uses of the terms gay and homosexuality are distinctly parallel in the fact that they implied the notion of negating conventional and traditional customs.

As of the 20th and 21st centuries, the word gay, in conjunction with ...