Five Love Languages of children



Five Love Languages of children

Introduction

Love and affection are most important emotional needs. Speaking of love we can come to many images; however we are not used to talking about different love languages, and understanding the love languages that we will be able to be effective when communicating and loving. Just as there are many languages around the world in love are the same, each of us has a different love language. Many times we try to communicate something we want our spouses or children and we do not understand ourselves, or often try to tell us something that we do not understand. True love is always unconditional (Cloud & Townsend, 2001). We accept the child as he is, it's not his accomplishments, let us love them no matter what you do or not. If we do not meet the needs of love in a child's life (filled to the brim with his emotional tank), we constantly encounter educational problems.

There is no way to show a child too much unconditional love. This is contrary to education, which has received many adults now bringing in good faith with their children conditional love. We are imperfect people, so we should not expect that we will start to show unconditional love in every place and time. But the more we will be closer to this ideal situation, the more clearly we can see that how easier it is to love others, no matter what (Clinton & Sibcy, 2006). This will help us to repeat the obvious statements about our children. In this paper, five languages of love for children will be analyzed and how every child understands love in different situations.

Discussion

Children sometimes use the language, which at least initially, difficult for us to understand. But it also works the other way. Sometimes children cannot understand what we want them to communicate. Of all the possible consequences of the lack of agreement probably the greatest threat carries the ineffective communication of love to our children. Did you know the language of love, and whether your child knows how to use it? Every child has the basic language of love, a way of showing affection by their parents, who speaks to him most (Chapman & Campbell, 1997).

The book by Gary Chapman will show parents how to recognize a child's primary love language and begin to use it. This will also see four other languages to help better show love to their child. As we shall see, children need to know that they are loved, that they can develop into mature, responsible people (Kolari, 2009). Love is essential so that the child can become an adult man, alone, capable of loving and giving to others. The Art of showing love to children read about five languages of love spoken by children, and how to discover the child's primary love language in which it is best to communicate his feelings (Clinton & Sibcy, 2006). Gary Chapman believes that every child speaks a particular ...