Q: What are some of the myths about suicide? When speaking with a family of a suicidal individual, how would you explain those myths? How do you take into account the myths versus realities during a lethality assessment?
Answer:
There are many commonly-held misconceptions about suicide. These myths of suicide often stand in the way of providing assistance for those who are at-risk (Osgood and Brandt 2001). By dispelling the myths, those responsible for the care and education of young people will be in a better position to identify those who are at-risk and to provide the help that is needed (Blumenthal and Kupfer 2000).
Myth 1: There is nothing that anyone could have done to prevent the suicide.
Reality: At some point in the process a timely intervention might have averted the tragic outcome (Blumenthal and Kupfer 2000).
Myth 2: In time those affected by the loss of someone to suicide will get over it.
Reality: Suicide loss is characterized by a long, severe, and painful grief that may not abate.
Myth 3: Someone who has never experienced a suicide loss can know what it is like.
Reality: "I know what you are going through" can only be true if the speaker is also a suicide griever.
Myth 4: Those who endure a suicide loss are made stronger by it. Reality: Suicide loss shatters personal beliefs, depletes self-esteem, leads to depression, and sometimes to suicide (Osgood and Brandt 2001).
Myth 5: Those who are young when a parent or sibling suicides are spared the pain (Blumenthal and Kupfer 2000).
Reality: The very young often feel the effect years later when they learn what happened. Children grieve and may have serious problems if it is not acknowledged and supported.
Myth 6: A suicide by an older person doesn't affect others as it does if the victim is young.
Reality: The grievers of an elder victim may be told that he/she "was old and going to die anyway." This marginalizes their grief.
Myth 7: Being around others who have had such a loss will just make you feel worse (Osgood and Brandt 2001).
Reality: Such contact is usually beneficial. It shows that one is not alone.
Myth 8: Those around someone who has had a suicide loss shouldn't talk about it.
Reality: Ignoring loss is denying loss. It should not be given "the silent treatment."
Myth 9: Learning about suicide after having a suicide loss will not do any good (Blumenthal and Kupfer 2000).
Reality: Most who suffer a suicide loss need to know how it came to happen and understand "why."
Myth 10: Stigma is no longer associated with suicide loss. Reality: There may still be hurtful remarks about the victim, what motivated their death, and the grievers' responsibility or knowledge of their intent (Osgood and Brandt 2001).
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