Coping with Dying

Coping with Dying

Coping with Dying

Introduction

Accepting the reality of loss, fully facing the loved one is dead, he's gone and not coming back. Experience the pain of grief, without blocking the feelings or deny the pain that is present. It is impossible to lose someone who you want without pain. Adapting to a world in which the loved one is absent. This is starting to do tasks, procedures, decisions, etc.. without the presence and support they gave us before that person. Emotionally resituate our loved one and look to the future. This is not to forget but to find an appropriate and important place to remember our life together, but leaving room for other meaningful relationships. Life will never be the same, but enrich our space with new emotions and relationships.

Discussion

When we know the death of a relative, spouse or child, the world collapses. We wonder if we will ever overcome this pain, regain their zest for life. But with time, it is possible to back up the hill, and turn again to the future. For parents, siblings and relatives, a child who commits suicide is a very difficult to overcome. But if the pain seems immeasurable, it is possible to get help and support (Bryant, 2003). Groups of words and thus allow specialists to talk about his experience and emerge from its isolation. Here are some comments and tips to try and start enjoying life.

The intensity and duration of grief depends on many factors: type of death (expected or sudden, peaceful or violent), the intensity of union with the deceased, the nature of the relationship with the lost person. The length of mourning for the death of a beloved person can take between 1 and 3 years (Child, 2010). We can say that we have completed a match when we are able to remember the deceased without pain, when we have learned to live without him or her, when we stopped living in the past and can reinvest all our energy in life and in the alive.

There is no fixed time to grieve. Everyone will need their time. And only we can make the time needed by our being to be considered recovered. This in spite of often our family and friends, urge us, would like to see us in the normal Now, perhaps because so they not suffer so much. But each of us only know what we need. Integrating grief is a process that is intended to recognize the pain that loss occurs. Accept that it hurts, accept absences, accept he is dead, express the pain and start the way back to reality and our own order of things (Downing, 2006). Rearrange all matters that were scattered, resolve outstanding resume roots, filling the spaces again. Recalling lived with that person, remember in our existence as it was while living, accepting that he is dead. We still have to have him present in our hearts, not what it was, but what made us, son, sister, father, husband, ...