BOOK REVIEW “Why You Do The Things You Do” by Dr. Tim Clinton & Dr. Gary Sibcy

“Why You Do The Things You Do” by Dr. Tim Clinton & Dr. Gary Sibcy

Introduction

The book "Why do the things you do" is written by Dr. Tim Clinton and Dr. Gary Sibcy. The book has become extremely important over the last couple of years. The book is essential reading for adults who want to better understand their child / family dynamics and improve, and parents who do not want to repeat past mistakes (Tim, 2006). Review and Analysis

The authors have provided an insight into family dynamics based on scientific studies and work with patients. Classified uncomplicatedly have relationships into 4 zones. The premise is that our relationship styles based on the relationships we had in our families. I have not been able to reserve the book. The authors provide a section dedicated to building healthy relationships with our children and the tools to change their future.

Over the years, despite a successful career, great husband and family, I have persistent feelings of emptiness and loneliness of my life. But outside, I see myself as a mother happy and well adjusted and secure job. What is the source of these feelings and how to replace them with feelings of happiness?

I've been reading books on self-esteem. Some content is relevant, but I think what I'm reading is a prescription for a symptom, not the real problem. Reading "Why do the things you do" was an incredible moment Aha.

I think now I have the beginning of a complete toolbox - to really revise my story and my "now" fully and constructively. I should mention that I have seen the book in Christian bookstores. One of the author's goals is to help build a stronger relationship with God for a relationship style has prevented in the past. Christian content is quite small and a little underestimated.

This book adapts the familiar concept of "attachment styles" to a wide audience. The authors, doctors themselves, change the name of the concept of "relationship styles" to help readers see more clearly how "united" to the other in childhood (mainly parents and caregivers) affects how you "connect" or refer to spouses, children and friends into adulthood.

The four attachment styles (a secure and three insecure - very bad odds) are brought to life with examples of people who have advised the authors. Examples of each style are clear and unambiguous, so it's pretty easy to put into a particular style. This ability to see him in the concepts accepted and well studied, is a liberating way. I'm not sure that the information does no good, however, unless accompanied by staff of the therapy with a trained counselor. The book tells you why you do things you do (hence the title), but did not delve deeply into what you can do about it. Perhaps the authors should follow with a book that is more specific about how to make a ...