Attitudes toward divorce are decidedly ambivalent in the Garden State. While more residents see society's growing acceptance of divorce as a change for the worse rather than for the better, most can't find a good reason why an unhappily married couple should stay together. Even when children are involved, a majority of general public say that the kids are usually better off when parents with irreconcilable differences get divorced. The Star-Ledger/Eagleton-Rutgers Poll conducted last month also found that about one-quarter of residents (24%) feel it is too easy ...