"If you were my boy I'd take you out and gamble," he said. "But you are your father's and your mother's and you are in a lucky boat." (1.28)
My Lot in Life
When I heard and found out about my 13-year old daughter I tried of odds of making significant restrictive methods and undertakings that were available to me at the time. Generally when parents encounter such situations, their immediate reaction to such items is generally negative and completely blown away.
These results in restricted behavioural patterns and undertakings, such as being grounded, leaving out on old friends, time punctuality, and scrutiny check in terms of how far and wide have things been made available to them. What parents need to realize is that if their children are involved in such innate and reoccurring practices is due to parent's indifference and unavailability of being with them at the time they are most required.
My initial reaction as a parent was completely devastated. I immediately went into a state of denial and grief that I couldn't cater my child in the best possible way although I skinned her from my blood, brought her up, gave her all good things in life, but then there was a huge mistake somewhere, anywhere, somewhere where I couldn't trace my child. This led me being angry with myself and ultimately being angry with her, thus putting all forms of bounds and barbwires, choking my child and making it worse for her to breathe.
With the raging hormones in her gut, everything seemed haywire and the time when she would be taking marijuana. Difficult times were being spent; less talking, more arguments, more fighting, things being banged around the house. It was just the right sadness that anyone could possibly; every night my ...