DIVORCE PREVENTION

Divorce Prevention



The reasons why dating does not work to stop future divorces

Where singles meet, they do not see each other, they say, but I do not feel heard, to lend a hand, but do not feel connected (Carter Elizabeth McGoldrick 2009). There is so much judging, evaluating, chasing, holding, thinking, willing and needy is that nobody actually is with each other and little space left for a genuine, joyful, intimate relationship.

Someone looks at you and you look at them and within two seconds, you have already decided whether you'll see each other. You go through motions of the apartment, dishonest evening in any case, pretending you do not notice or feel the obvious. This is so embarrassing that you are interested, then what the hell are you hesitating to worry at all - you would have more fun at home in a bathrobe on the couch watching TV!

Your list of what you want in a partner prevents you from actually "being" with people you meet, so the relationship cannot develop. You have a relationship with your comparison list, and not man. Also, check each other, keep your head and out of your heart where love lives.

You are so busy trying to impress each other that the authenticity goes out the window. Relations cannot build, when people are hiding, pretending, trying, etc. Flux ratio, when people are honest and real.You think you see the date is who the other person really is. But it is not. Thus, you miss who that person might be or might be. People are not rigid and fixed, but evolve and becomes.Wishing relations prevents you from one, so unfortunately, the more you long relationship, and the more the relationship cannot be displayed. Wanting and having not existed in the same space.

You show up to "see" how you "feel" about this man as a passive observer in the movie. You do not go out on dates with the intentions or the creation in mind, so that you get what you get instead of what you want. You define your relationship too quickly. You are trying to decide whether or not you're going to marry first, second or third date.Primary prevention

Since most couples know, there are natural ups and downs in every relationship, this article does not discuss the regular every day stress related fights and arguments between spouses, but a more serious situation where both partners are seriously considering divorce, or even at the beginning divorce proceedings(Bell & Robert 2006).Some people do not believe that a broken marriage can be saved, I do not think that's true, but then again I do not think anything is impossible, we all know many examples of people who have achieved incredible things, sometimes even in desperate situations, so I believe that we humans are capable of almost anything, and I definitely believe that maintaining a marriage or relationship, and preventing divorce is possible.

The first step in preventing the upcoming divorce is to strengthen the individual, this means that each ...