Choice of the lifetime: finding of true love



Is identity the root cause of personal problems?

Introduction

Live of every individual comprises of numerous good and bad incidents, but among those incidents some have the potential of changing the entire thinking capability of one's personal life (Bettie, 2003, pp, 50-80). Here I will disclose some of my friend personal experiences that had played an enormous part in changing his ways of thinking about certain aspect, and have made him more responsible citizen of the country.

Once an individual comes into this world, is being given a name by his parents and family members that soon become a major characteristics of his personality, or it would not be wrong to describe as his “identity”. However, when a child grow older, he soon realized that name given by parents is not his real identity, in fact according to this society an individual actual identity is from he belongs i.e. his class, background, family background, religion, economic status, race and others (Biber, 2007 pp. 153-165). My friend come across with this hard truth, during his school days in which he realized that most of the school ethnographies are comparison among apprentice across different classes of categories and craft general theme of experiences faced by student of middle or working class students.

Class categories are basically, individual identities that have been formulated by evil minds, with the only objective of gaining unconditional power, however, if someone consider these class categories, ass two different forms of groups, or peers that individual have to overlook countless students those are not even consider under the rules and regulation of classes (Burns & Torre, 2004, pp.127-134). On the other hand, the relation between students association with working or middle class group is extremely strong with the parent's social and economic condition.

It would be unsatisfactory to monitor the experience of parents with the increasing probability of student achieving great academic results, mainly because there are numerous student of middle class, that are currently studying in collage level, but are aiming to achieve all their future goals, and there are other middle class students that are currently in their professional stage of life, and are looking to sustain their position (Clay, 2012, pp. 122-128). Meanwhile, as life is continuous process, numerous of certain class identity discrimination cases are unreported because of various reasons, however, my two best friends from different class background has given exceptional performances in their school level, and are now aiming to achieve scholarship of country most popular university.

By becoming their friend, I was able to realize the depth of their personal experiences that discloses all of us that the roots of race and gender ethnicity are the important or founding part of prevailing social inequality among different social classes. The school in which I was studying was known as one of the best in changing the internal structure of a child, and majority of the students of that school belong to well to do families (Davis, 2004, ...