Nothing is easy in life. We condemn violence in all its forms, and almost all are trying to developing ourselves some human qualities, such as altruism, and listening to the other. The Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is a method to create between human beings relationship based on empathy, compassion, cooperation, harmony and respect for self and others. This is a communication tool, mainly verbal, which can be used to resolve conflicts between two people or in groups. The practice of Nonviolent Communication would also be in a better relationship with you, to better understand their needs and deep support, independently and responsibly, the various aspects of his life. This is not therapy, but it may have interesting therapeutic implications. The Nonviolent Communication could be beneficial to anyone who wishes to communicate with more authenticity and effectiveness.
Emotional blackmail is a particularly powerful form of manipulation which threatens near, directly or indirectly. The person (spouse, friend, professional relationship) can play of our feelings and her knowledge of our character and our weaknesses to get what she wants from us, through the clever threat alternating and affection. It should be noted that this process is often unconscious from the individual who uses it, and that his feelings towards us may be sincere. This is what explains that emotional blackmail is very hard to diagnose, and stop.
Here is a process called nonviolent communication which consciously leads us to formulate our desires or fears legitimate to others, without aggression or domination. Responsible communication avoids the pitfalls of moralizing views of the requirements of mismanaged emotions. Rosenberg chose the name "nonviolent" to refer to the philosophy of Gandhi 's ahimsa or nonviolence , however, unlike Gandhi, Rosenberg approves the protective use of force, the use of force to prevent injury, ...